Accept?!

There are all kind of human out there

The healthy and the unhealthy The rich and the poor The optimists and the pessimists The thoughtful and the illiterate The dreaming and the practical ones

But there’s no material to find out whether they are good or bad.!

Yes there’s no material or a scale available to find out how good they are or how bad they are.. (pls post me if there is one)

When we try to get to be with anyone, for instance a new job friend or your partner in a budding relationship ( or may be both), try understanding the unique value of the person and accept as they are!

Yup, i get it.. to read it looks simpler but in reality it could be difficult to keep on track.. And avoiding this could be the potential starting point of all the troubles..!

So how we start accepting a person as they are,

1) have healthy conversations and argument while it comes to an end try to grasp the gesture of your partner.

2) do not let them adjust for the sake of you. For a long and healthy relationship, sake can become the strongest reason that shakes the trust.

3) compare and find how and why you are treated special, understand and find out if its your personality is the one making you special never something that has a slightest deviation from what you are, if its so confront and explain your true self (may be even that could make you very special)

4) think in their perspective as well, its important to accept the person as a whole but it is also important to realize what made them, choose you…

5) recommend a feature in their character and never try to change them..

#accept #happiness #health #Relationship