So what is the real problem:

It’s been decades probably when this first protest started.. A silent fight for women rights..

The longest fight of all in human history.

Oh what cruel world it is, for women!

I can see clearly that we are not treated equally.

It numbs me when I hear the violence against us.

It keeps my heart aching when we are the victim of plenty of abuses.

But is it all a random act.? Doesn’t it seem really big number to be added in a random list..?!?!

What really went wrong.! What is the actual problem..?

in my perspective,

The problem is although time has moved in a greater scale from the time when women were treated like farm animals to now, we are still negotiating for % of our birth rights, in every man made so called Systems.

The problem is the wrong beliefs,

The myth about women,

The bogus insane rituals,

The non-sensual point of view of culture and heritage,

And last but not the least

Filthy Men sure not all men but some of them..

The men who can’t just perceive women as another human before going into the point of view of gender.. This kind of men should have been in big numbers to turn decades of social behaviors to just put more burden on women and just to avoid seeing her reach heights.

Well, this time that we live in is very crucial we have every strength with us to break open the rituals, judgments, abuses and violences.

Okay lets say we have the strength.. how exactly we do it?!

ask yourself girl everyday and every night what makes them think you are lesser than the other part of society?!

Is it the way you show your emotions? Find it.. Find the reason why you behave in the way you do.. Forget the anxiety, which is holding you back.. Think alot understand about yourself and be in your definition of healthy self.. Never let anyone reduce your pride.. Never let anyone to belittle you not your parents, not your brother, not your boyfriend, and not your husband.. Explain what you are, make them understand you are anything but a piece of star.. Nothing like what they thought you are.. Define your world what are you.. They will surely understand what you are not..

Is it the way you treat others? Ask yourself are you giving the right amount of respect..? What you think they really deserve.. Think, whether they deserve that much attention you give them.. If you think they don’t, just opt out.. Don’t wait until they take a ownership of your emotions.. Keep people in right distance.. Never give a chance for them to point anything you did or say.. Think of your own morality and stick to it.. Be true.. If you want to confront and anything, just say it.. Say it aloud even if the world is against you.. Never just keep the thought to yourself to save some social embarrassment.. Shout aloud until they can’t ignore it..

Is it the way you dress? Change it then Change it until it becomes an armour.. I’m not talking about small or big.. I’m talking about your confident way of dressing.. When you walk with full confidence on any dress you like.. Just own everyone around you.. Make them feel like you are not what they thought you would be.. Gain the respect..

Is that because you rely on them? Everytime when you ask for help to someone make sure it is a two person job if its not, Do It Yourself.. You definitely don’t need anyone’s help with a day to day activities.. You don’t need anyone around you to help with anything, because most of the times when you do it on your own, it gives satisfaction and confidence that you pulled it off.. Help others protect others but don’t expect anyone to help you or protect you.. Because you are the ultimate fighter.. You got this girl!

Last but not the least, never ever ever fit into the theory of what they say you are.. Define yourself to you.. Make the definition better and better.. Gather knowledge help everyone.. Just believe that you have all the ability to do anything, that anyone Can do and sometimes can’t do.. It’s just your mindset.. At a biological stand point you might not able to lift a weight as high as men can carry but it was just suppression of evolution by the society before.. So hack it.. Become better self..Earn the right.. Practice and become what they always say that you can’t be..Dare them, break all the definition they had about you and give them a wake up call.. Cure their insanity..

You are not weaker gender in anyway.. Infact you have the strongest mind after years and years of fighting this mythology..

above all be true to yourself.. Help every women you can.. If you are well aware make the girls around you understand what you see.. Connect with your sisterhood.. Stand up for her.. Because you are capable of doing anything..

Believe in one ultimate truth

“YOU ARE PERFECT”

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